A few years back I tried to incorporate video clips into my teaching. Below is a link to a brief account I recently published in AJS Perspectives on this experiment.
Then and Now
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A few years back I tried to incorporate video clips into my teaching. Below is a link to a brief account I recently published in AJS Perspectives on this experiment.
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I will be giving four talks in Baltimore on April 1-2 on the holiness of the Bible. I am grateful to the Hoffberger Foundation for Torah Study and the consortium of Baltimore area synagogues for the opportunity to do this. The details are located on my Events page or on this flyer.
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I recently wrote an essay for thegemara.com on the origins of Jewish betrothal. The primary but not only context for this essay is to provide a new, historical lens for those who, working through the “daf yomi” cycle of reading a page of Talmud each day through to its completion, have just started tractate Kiddushin. The piece is below or can be accessed on the site here.
The historical context within which to read the Talmudic discussions of kiddushin.
Prof. Michael Satlow
Abstract: In antiquity, marriage by Jews and non-Jews alike was a natural process, not defined solely by a single legal moment. Through the requirement of kiddushin, the rabbis revived an ancient institution known in the bible as Erusin (אירוסין), imbuing it with a binding legal significance despite apparent public disinterest. How should we understand the rise of rabbinic kiddushin? What exactly did the rabbis have to gain in its establishment? |
Introduction: Acquiring a Wife
האשה נקנית בשלוש דרכים, וקונה את עצמה בשתי דרכים “A woman is acquired in three ways and acquires herself in two ways,” the opening mishnah in tractate Kiddushin states; it continues: “She is acquired by means of money, contract, or sexual intercourse.”
Over the last few decades, this line – with its commercial overtones – has attracted a great deal of (almost entirely negative) attention.1 This attention, however, is hardly new. The opening line of b. Kiddushin immediately notices this term of acquisition, which it compares with different verbs for describing marriage used elsewhere in the Mishnah and tannaitic literature:
מאי שנא הכא דתני “האשה נקנית” ומאי שנא התם דתני “האיש מקדש”?
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Why does it teach here “a woman is acquired” while there it teaches “a man betroths.” |
The question of why the Mishnah sometimes uses the language of commercial transactions while on other occasions it uses the language of “betrothal” provides an opportunity for the Gemara to probe the legal nature of “betrothal.” What exactly is betrothal and how is it like, or not, other kinds of legally governed exchanges?
At the same time, this Gemara raises significant historical questions: What legally defines a marriage for the rabbis? In what ways did they continue or break from previous definitions of marriage? Did most Jews during Talmudic times practice marriage as the rabbis prescribed? Why did the rabbis use the term kiddushin to describe the act of betrothal, especially when, as they freely admit at b. Kiddushin 2b (see below), they themselves invented the term?
In this essay I will focus primarily on these historical questions with the goal of creating a context within which to read the Talmudic discussions of kiddushin.
Jewish Marriage Today
Given most reader’s familiarity with the modern Jewish wedding ceremony, I would like to use this as my starting point. The traditional Jewish wedding ceremony – the time spent under the chuppah – has three distinct parts:
The rest of this essay will focus only on the first legal act, that of kiddushin. To most of us it seems obvious that to form a marriage one needs a single, tightly defined and legally objective act (e.g., a marriage license). This is hardly intuitive, though. What I want to suggest is that most ancient Jews did not accept the rabbinic notion that kiddushin (or any other legally objective act) was necessary to form a valid marriage.
Marriage as a Natural Process
Before sketching the history of kiddushin it is worth pausing a moment for a thought experiment. Think for a moment about a couple that you know. They have been together for decades. They own property together; they live together; they had and raised children together; they go everywhere together; their names regularly appear together on donation lists; they think that they are married and everyone else you know does at well. Now imagine if they dug up their wedding certificate and were shocked to discover that there was a critical mistake on the license. Maybe the person they thought was an official clerk was really a huckster and in the eyes of the law they were never married. Are they married?
I think that most people, and they themselves, would think this was kind of amusing. Annoying to be sure, but amusing nonetheless. Of course they were married. They lived as if they were married and everybody around them believed they were married. Continue to imagine that at the midpoint in this long marriage the wife had had an affair. Few would say that it is now fine since she was in fact never legally married.
This lens is critical for understanding marriage in antiquity, both among Jews and non-Jews. Most people “married,” but that status was determined by a protracted process that began with a “wedding” (including celebratory meals and maybe a procession), continued with consummation, and proceeded with making a life together. It lacked a single objective moment during which the marriage was thought to take place simply because, except in extraordinary cases, it wouldn’t have been needed. Whether a sexual relationship was adulterous or not, for example, was obvious.
In the biblical period and among Jews from the fifth century
BCE to the sixth century CE, whether a couple was married or not may have mattered for the purpose of inheritance, but played no role in determining the status of any offspring; there is for example no designation in biblical or Jewish law for what we might call an “illegitimate” – that is, born out of wedlock – child.
The Biblical Beginnings of Legal Betrothal
Nevertheless, a kind of inchoate marriage developed in ancient West Asia that resembles the modern kiddushin4 – it creates a legal marriage but precedes cohabitation. Men and women (or often boys and girls) could “marry,” well in advance of their cohabitation. The purpose of this legal institution is unclear; perhaps it was meant to formalize bonds between families. In any event, this legal institution seems to appear in the Bible under the verb ארש (in the Mishnah this is changed to ארס):
In these passages, as well perhaps as Hos. 2:21-22 (“וְאֵרַשְׂתִּיךְ לִי לְעוֹלָם…,” traditionally recited while wrapping the tefillin around the fingers,) the verb ארש denotes an inchoate marriage, in which a legal tie exists but prior to the couple living together.7
Discontinuity in the Ancient Jewish Development of Legal Betrothal
Our extant evidence suggests that this legal structure of marriage – consisting of a first stage of “betrothal” followed (perhaps some significant period of time later) by consummation and cohabitation – simply did not continue among Jews from the biblical period onwards. With only one exception (discussed below), both literary sources and legal documents found on papyri written from the sixth century BCE to the first century CE suggest that Jews did not “betroth” in this manner. Like other Greeks and Romans, they tended to become “engaged” in the sense that we use the word: it was a serious commitment which changed no one’s legal status. There may well have been a monetary penalty imposed on one who broke off the arrangement before a marriage, but in such cases no divorce was necessary.
The single tantalizing exception comes from the Gospel of Matthew.8 Here Joseph is described as having been betrothed to Mary but not yet cohabitating with her when she becomes pregnant (Matt. 1:18-19).9 Joseph considers divorcing her. Such a story only makes sense if the betrothal was considered binding. The author of Matthew (the most “Jewish” of all the Christian gospels), writing probably in the last first century CE, knew of the practice of a binding betrothal. Did this author know it from knowledge of the Hebrew Bible or because this was popular practice in his community? While we cannot say for certain, it is at least a possibility that by the first century CE some Jewish communities had revived the practice of using binding betrothals.
Reintroducing Kiddushin in Tannaitic
and Amoraic Times: A Hard Sell
The rabbinic attempt to revive an ancient institution that had mostly fallen out of practice pointedly raises the question of why they would have done so. For many (I suspect most) Jews at the time of the rabbis, kiddushin would have been a hard sell. It would have left their children, especially daughters, in limbo, in the case of a betrothal gone bad or the death of a partner before the couple had sexual relations; a non-constitutive engagement contract with monetary penalties for non-fulfillment was far more flexible. It lacked explicit status as a mitzvah in the Torah. The rabbis of antiquity themselves had little power or influence in their communities.10 Why would any Jew have entered into a state of kiddushin when the arrangement of a non-binding betrothal worked well? It is unlikely that most Jews practiced kiddushin as described in classical rabbinic literature.
Conditional Betrothals: The Rabbinic Loophole to make Kiddushin Relevant
There is limited if indirect evidence of the relative lack of popular interest in kiddushin in the rabbinic sources themselves. Tractate Kiddushin devotes significant space to discussing “conditional betrothals.” These can take a variety of forms but usually are constructed as betrothals that go into effect only upon performance of an act, usually on the part of the prospective groom (e.g., Mishnah Qiddushin 3:6). At first blush these seem to be odd: Who would make conditional betrothals? On further reflection, though, one wonders if the rabbis created this option specifically as a way to get around the more negative aspects of kiddushin (for example, the case in which a betrothed man dies prior to their living together) and thus make it more appealing to more people. Using a conditional betrothal would defer the actual constitutive moment of marriage until the performance of the stipulated action, which would presumably take place immediately prior to the wedding itself.
There is support for this line of reasoning in the Palestinian Talmud’s discussion of a document known as the סימפון (simpon, a Greek loanword).
ירושלמי קידושין ג:ב (סג ע”ד) ר אבהו בשם רבי יוחנן סדר הסימפון כך הוא אנא פלן בר פלן מקדש ליך אנת פלנית ברת פלן על מנת ליתן ליך מיקמת פלן ומכנסיניך ליום פלן ואין אתא יום פלן ולא כנסתיך לא יהוי לי כלום |
Y. Qid. 3:2, 63d R. Abbahu said in the name of R. Yohanan: “The order of the simpon is thus: I, so-and-so son of so-and-so, betroth you, so-and-so daughter of so-and-so, on condition that I give to you a certain thing, and cause you to enter [i.e., to marry you] on a certain day. And if that day comes and I have not caused you to enter, there will be nothing to me [i.e., you will have no claim against me].” |
This is a contract that combines a conditional betrothal with a financial penalty (on the part of the prospective groom) in the case that the condition is not fulfilled. Such a contract largely makes kiddushin into a legal fiction while preserving the advantages of a non-constitutive marriage contract.
Conditional betrothals and the simpon might thus reflect rabbinic awareness that their understanding of kiddushin would have been unattractive to most contemporary Jews. (Of course, it is also unappealing to most modern Jews, who reduce it to a two-minute legal formality during the wedding ceremony itself.) But again, why they would have (re)introduced the ancient practice of kiddushin in the first place, only to have to later “correct” it?
The Rabbinic Effort to Define the Moment of Marriage
The answer to this question can be found more in the general approach of the rabbis than it can in the practice and theory of marriage alone. At every turn the rabbis seek legally objective criteria, whether in ritual, civil, or criminal law. With marriage, there was something very big at stake: adultery.11 Adultery is punishable by death and even if the rabbis did not have the capacity (and hopefully desire) to administer this punishment, they felt it necessary to define “marriage” more precisely. Similarly, rabbinic law ended up (after some debate) defining a mamzer/et as the child of a forbidden (adultery or incest) sexual relationship. Because having the status of mamzer/et made one ineligible to marry another Jew, more precise definitions of “marriage” were essential.
In their communities the general social process through which marriages began was squishy; at what point precisely is a woman to be considered “married” for purposes of knowing if she committed adultery? The rabbis sought an objective moment before which she was not married and after which she was. Kiddushin fulfilled this function.
Why is it Called Kiddushin?
Early on in its discussion of the first mishnah of Kiddushin, the Gemara briefly turns its attention to the term itself:
מעיקרא תני לישנא דאורייתא, ולבסוף תני לישנא דרבנן. ומאי לישנא דרבנן?
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In the first case they taught the language of the Torah, but in the last case they taught in the language of the rabbis. Why use the language of the rabbis? |
Recognizing that kiddushin is a new rabbinic term (lishna d’rabbanan, the only time that term in used in the Bavli) the Gemara asks what it is supposed to mean. Why use this term rather than the ones found in the Tanakh? The answer is “that it [kiddushin] forbids her to everyone else as hekdesh (i.e., property dedicated to God).”
There are three important things to note about the Gemara’s suggestion:
I have previously suggested that the real origin of the term kiddushin is to be found in Greek.12 The process of “handing over” the bride to the groom in Greek marriages is called ekdosis (“giving away”). The Tannaim may have seen in this word a term that they knew, קדש. In its origin, then, the term would have had little connection to sanctity or exclusive ownership. This suggestion has not found wide support but nor has it been refuted and remains to me one of the more interesting and plausible explanations for how biblical erusin came to be known as kiddushin.
Summary
The opening sugya of b. Kiddushin largely sets the stage for the rest of the tractate, which discusses in great detail what constitutes a valid betrothal. The act of kiddushin is not seen as a sanctification of marriage.13 It is a dry legal act meant to create a legally objective way to create a marriage. The rabbinic discussion is also largely academic, directed not as much at changing common practice (although it was cognizant of such practice) as it was at working through the legal nuances of this newly resurrected practice.
ומי האיש אשר ארש אשה ולא לקחה ילך וישב לביתו פן ימות במלחמה ואיש אחר יקחנה
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Is there anyone who has paid the bride-price (ארש) for a wife, but who has not yet married her? Let him go back to his home, lest he die in battle and another man marry her. (NJPS) |
כג כי יהיה נער {נערה} בתולה מארשה לאיש ומצאה איש בעיר ושכב עמה כד והוצאתם את שניהם אל שער העיר ההוא וסקלתם אתם באבנים ומתו את הנער {הנערה} על דבר אשר לא צעקה בעיר ואת האיש על דבר אשר ענה את אשת רעהו ובערת הרע מקרבך כה ואם בשדה ימצא האיש את הנער {הנערה} המארשה והחזיק בה האיש ושכב עמה ומת האיש אשר שכב עמה לבדו כו ולנער {ולנערה} לא תעשה דבר אין לנער {לנערה} חטא מות כי כאשר יקום איש על רעהו ורצחו נפש כן הדבר הזה כז כי בשדה מצאה צעקה הנער {הנערה} המארשה ואין מושיע לה כח כי ימצא איש נער {נערה} בתולה אשר לא ארשה ותפשה ושכב עמה ונמצאו כט ונתן האיש השכב עמה לאבי הנער {הנערה} חמשים כסף ולו תהיה לאשה תחת אשר ענה לא יוכל שלחה כל ימיו
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In the case of a virgin who is engaged to a man – if a man comes upon her in town and lies with her, you shall take the two of them out to the gate of that town and stone them to them; the girl because she did not cry for help in the town, and the man because he violated another man’s wife. Thus you will sweep away evil from your midst. But if the man comes upon the engaged girl in the open country, and the man lies with her by force, only the man who lay with her shall die, but you shall do nothing to the girl. The girl did not incur the death penalty; for this case isike that of a man attacking another and murdering him. He came upon her in the open; though the engaged girl cried for help, there was no one to save her. If a man comes upon a virgin who is not engaged and seizes her and lies with her, and they are discovered, the man who lay with her shall pay the girl’s father fifty (shekels) of silver, and she shall be his wife. Because he has violated her, he can never have the right to divorce her. (NJPS) |
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I am very happy to announce an upcoming workshop at Brown University that I am coordinating, “Jewish Attitudes Toward Wealth and Poverty,” to take place on November 1-3, 2015. More information can be found on the workshop website.
A description:
Traditional Jewish texts present different approaches to wealth, poverty, and money. The purpose of this conference is both to identify these texts and to explore the diversity of their ideas. Accordingly, the conference will be organized around particular texts dealing with specific issues. Conference time will be spent primarily in study of and conversation about these texts. Our ultimate goal is to produce a volume that includes the texts (in original translations) with short commentaries.
The conference will be organized around the following themes:
- Ownership: Is there a concept of “private property,” or does all property ultimately belong to God and/or the community? What can acquire the status of “property”?
- The Moral Value of Wealth and Poverty: Is being wealthy a sign of divine favor? Is poverty ultimately a “better” state in which to live?
- The Acquisition of Wealth: Are there better or worse ways to acquire wealth? Can one make money off the labor of others? How is the biblical prohibition against charging interest treated, and what are its ramifications?
- Spending: What are good and bad ways of disposing of wealth? Do the poor have rights to the wealth of others?
Each of the four sessions will be prefaced with some comments from the facilitators. Participants will then break out into smaller groups to read and discuss the texts, guided by focus questions. Everybody will then reconvene for a general discussion.
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I have written a short piece on how the book of Ben Sira (also known as Ecclesiasticus, which today is found in the Apocrypha) was pushed to the Jewish margins and on some recent attempts to bring it back into at least the fringes of Jewish consciousness. The essay can be found here.